Sunday, April 5, 2020

Spring Thoughts and Contest Kickoff by Nancy Fraser #RomanceGems

Spring is my favorite season of the year. It's a time of renewal, of both body and spirit. The winter clothes are shed in favor of a good pair of walking shoes, a lightweight jacket, and...if your spring is like mine...an umbrella.

This year things will be different. Yet, the promise of spring and of renewal, gives me hope that we can overcome our current obstacles and once again enjoy the peace of mind we so desperately need.

I've spent the past few months in solitude. January and February were by choice, as I hibernated to avoid the winter flu. Little did I know how my hibernation was going to become not a choice but a necessity. And, like many others, I found myself struggling to accept that I couldn't just pick up and go whenever I wanted.

I had no trouble occupying my time and my mind when I was running the show. Reading, my own writing, everything fell neatly into place. Once staying inside was out of my hands, those same fun pasttimes grew increasingly tedious. As the days and weeks closed in, I knew I had to find new hobbies. New outlets for my restlessness. And find them I did.

Here are some of the things I'm doing to keep busy:

Every day, I make a phone call to a complete stranger at one of our two local nursing homes. I first spoke with the resident managers and asked them if they were willing to compile a list of names of those who had few or no relatives. Both were eager to comply and gave their lists to their main switchboards. I call each day at a set time, the person answering the phone gives me the name of the resident I'll be speaking with and a little bit about the person. Then, she connects me. And, for ten to fifteen minutes, I'm lifted out of my own bout of seclusion self-pity and into another person's life. It's amazing.

Last week, I cleaned out my two linen closets. Having traveled a lot over the past few years for both writing and pleasure, I had a lifetime supply of hotel soap, shampoo, conditioner, and lotion. I boxed those all up and dropped them off at the womens' shelter near me. I have to say, I've become an expert at dead-drops!

I've also started an indoor herb garden using...of all things...toilet paper tubes to hold the growing plants in place.

I've got five different herbs, some green onions, and garlic started.

Unfortunately, I can't seem to grow actual toilet paper.

I just finished a book trailer for an author friend and next week I'm going to turn in the revisions to my very first cookbook. I know that if I don't keep busy, I'll go crazy, so I'm looking for other ideas. I'd love to hear from all of you about what you're doing to pass the time in self-isolation.



I'm also participating in this month's Easter Egg Scavenger Hunt. You'll find a hidden egg somewhere on one of the following sites:


Once you've located the egg, just come back to the Rafflecopter form below and enter the information requested on Egg Hunt task. While you're there, also complete the other tasks for even more points!

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The complete information about this month drawing can be found on our Monthly Giveaway page.

Until next month, stay happy, stay healthy, and stay well read!

Nancy

15 comments:

  1. Such an uplifting post. Have a wonderful day!

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  2. I LOVE ALL the things you're doing in seclusion!! We've known each other for some time, but I must say how very kind you are, Nancy Fraser, esp to make those phone calls. ❤️ These are lonely times. The things I often miss are my daily interactions with people outside my home. The ladies at the bank, the folks at the market, the funny guys at the post office, a quick coffee with a friend. Thank you! Your post was lovely. A heartwarming, hopeful way to start the day.

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  3. You've found some great things to do! Really nice! I've been reading a lot more and trying to catch up with the hundreds of books on my Kindle. This may be God's way of telling us we all need to slow down and smell the roses!

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  4. What a lovely post. I’m sure those phone calls are deeply appreciated. Even the staff must love giving this good news to the patient whose turn it is to chat with you. For me, we walk our dog and when the sun is out and warming the front of the house we sit outside with coffee or lunch. Sometimes we chat with neighbours walking by. But I’ve now heard about #formalfriday so I may be posting some pics...

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  5. I love that idea about the phone calls. I've been calling some of the senior members of our church, but what a great idea. Nursing home residents are so prone to loneliness and isolation at the best of times. I love the ways you are getting things done and making the most of your isolation. Thanks for a nice post.

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  6. What a lovely post, Nancy! I'm prone to hibernate in the best of times. I really miss seeing our daughters! Otherwise, my life hasn't changed that much. I'm concerned for those who have lost paychecks and the small businesses facing bankruptcy, which is sad and unfair. Your post re-emphasizes what a nice person you are.

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  7. That's an amazing idea. Thank you, Nancy!

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  8. Hey, Nancy how did you ever think to call the nursing homes. Brilliant idea. I can think of two people who can't leave the nursing home and don't really understand what's happening. Having a special call would cheer them up. How's the egg hunt going?

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  9. What a great post, I love your spirit! I live with my mom in her senior high rise as her care taker. I always go out of my way to help the other residents in need myself, esp now.

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  10. I am going to take these ideas on board. Even try to grow TP.

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  11. You have had some great ideas to be productive and generous even during these crazy times. I'm still working as I am an "essential worker" at a grocery store. During what free time I have, I've been reading, keeping up with the housework, catching up on TV, and hanging out with my furbabies.

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  12. I absolutely love the phone calls, Nancy! I work in an assisted living and they can't come out of their rooms now, or have family visit. Nobody seems to understand why and we have to keep reminding them. It's very sad. And we have a few residents who never get any visitors. You're doing such a kindness!

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  13. Thank you to everyone for all your wonderful comments. The idea of the nursing home came to me b/c one of my neighbors has been moved there. I was very fond of her when she was here in our building and would often have coffee with her. She moved to the nursing home just before the holidays and I was visiting her often Now, of course, I can't but I started calling her. She said to me one day, "I'm worried about Phyllis across the hall. She doesn't have family and now I can't even go to visit her." An idea was born. If I could call my friend Mary, why couldn't I call Phyllis. It just kind of grew from there.

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  14. Wonderful post, Nancy. You're an amazing woman. Love your list of "stay busy" activities.

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