Friday, November 22, 2019

Sneaking Up on the Holidays by Nancy Fraser

With less than a week until Thanksgiving and just 33 days until Christmas, I'm currently fine-tuning my holiday expectations.

Oh, and previewing every dessert recipe that comes across Facebook. So far, I think there have been forty-two. Some looked interesting, some looked complicated, some I wouldn't touch with a pair of 14 inch tongs.

I get at least two requests per day from the grandchildren. "Can you make this one, Grandma?" I usually respond with, "Okay, but something else will have to go." Unfortunately, for them, they're unwilling to give up their three favorites (sweet potato pie, banana pudding, and heart-attack potatoes), so I may be safe from having to add to my duties.

Of course, that doesn't mean I won't test drive a recipe or two before the holidays.

I thought I might share a recipe for the Heart Attack Potatoes today, since earlier this month I shared a dessert. Fair warning though ... you might want to have a defibralator close by the dinner table. Think scalloped potatoes on steroids!

Grandma's Heart Attack Potatoes


  • 4-5 large potatoes (Yukon Gold are preferred), peeled and thinly sliced
  • 2 teaspoon salt
  • 1 stick (1/4 pound) butter
  • 2 cloves minced garlic (or 1 Tablespoon if using from a jar)
  • 1 large yellow onion, thinly sliced and separated into rings
  • 1 8oz package cream cheese
  • 1 Tablespoon Italian Seasoning
  • 1 cup whole milk
  • 1 cup heavy cream
  • Salt and Pepper to taste (be generous)
  • 1/2 cup Parmesan cheese (freshly grated)


  1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees and lightly butter the bottom and sides of an 11x14 baking dish
  2. Place potatoes and 2 teaspoons salt in a large pot covering completely with cold water
  3. In a large saucepan, melt butter over medium heat, add onion and saute for 5 minutes.
  4. Add garlic and Italian seasons and continue sauteeing for another 2 minutes to mix
  5. Cut cream cheese into squares and add to butter mixture. Heat through until melted.
  6. Add milk and cream and stir until all cheese is melted and everything combined.
  7. Drain potatoes and arrange in baking dish. Cover with sauce and top with grated Parmesan.
  8. Bake for 50 minutes until bubbly and potatoes are coooked through.
  9. Let set 10 minutes before serving.

Hint: This also makes a delicious meal by adding leftover chicken, turkey, beef, or even ground beef.

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I often feature food in my books. My very first book actually included recipes that were sounded out verbally by the heroine and she talked. I appreciated the great comments I received at the time, so I've often repeated the extra treat in later books.

One of my favorite recipes is included in my novella, Paging Dr. Cupid. It's for the heroine's famous Monte Cristo sandwiches. The story's just as tasty as the recipe!

Newly appointed Chief of Emergency Medicine Dr. Garrett Langley can't seem to find a secretary to keep up with his demands. His love life isn’t going so well, either. He recently lost his long-time girlfriend to his older brother and saw a workplace romance end in disaster, leaving him with a busy career but no love life.

Piano prodigy Grace Valentyne forfeited the second half of her Julliard scholarship to come home to California and care for her mother. Now, with her mother gone, she must find a job in order to pay for the remainder of her education. When offered the opportunity to work for the physician nicknamed Dr. Cupid, she jumps at the chance.

Grace soon finds herself in over her head—and not just with the office equipment. But falling for the boss won’t get her back to Julliard. She needs to keep her focus and not let the sexy doctor derail her professional goals.

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Thursday, November 21, 2019

Writing Romance by Karen Kelley #RomanceGems

I actually never expected to become a gazillionaire as a writer when I started writing. A good thing because I barely scrape by. No, I just wanted to get lost in my stories. They were my escape.

 I always felt like the outsider in my family while growing up. Like maybe they did find me on the side of the road. My sisters used to tell me that story over and over again. I believed them, and it hurt. As I got older, I decided I kind of liked the idea.

 I became a writer because of the stories I wanted to tell, but for me it was more than that. It was a validation of who I was as a human being. I was carving out my place in the world, and hopefully, leaving a mark in my own way.

Thankfully, I found a great group within RWA, which eventually disbanded, but these wonderful ladies (and the occasional male) gave me encouragement and the confidence to pursue my dream. I still remember that first meeting. It was at a restaurant. I drove around it four times before I got the courage to go inside. As soon as I walked through those doors and met this fabulous group of ,ladies, I knew I'd found exactly where I was supposed to be.

 I'm blessed to have a wonderful husband who encourages me to dream, and two wonderful children (and their spouses) who are proud of what I do.

 So, although I probably won't get rich, I'm living my dream and very thankful that I can.

 Do you have a dream? Or are you living it?

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Wednesday, November 20, 2019


By Caroline Clemmons

Our theme at Romance Gems for this month is Life Lessons. Most of us have so many life lessons we’ve learned in our lifetime that choosing one is difficult. Here are several I’ve learned:

While there are a few villains lurking, most of those we meet are good, dependable people. My husband (Hero) and I were driving through a depressed area (bad part of town) when we had a flat. Hero pulled over and got out to change the tire. We don’t think of ourselves as old, but we are not spring chickens. A young man pulled up and got out to help us. He was a bit scary in his wife-beater shirt and the appearance of a gang member. I’m embarrassed to admit that at first I wondered if he was going to rob us. Instead, he insisted on changing the tire. My husband was relieved (he has Parkinson’s and his strength is not what it used to be). Hero offered the young man cash for his help but the Good Samaritan wouldn’t accept. He said his mother would never forgive him if he had not stopped to help us.

Never say never to your children. When our eldest daughter was preparing to go to grad school a couple of hundred miles away, she went there to look for an apartment. Her sister accompanied her. I had assured our eldest that she would not be able to find an apartment with a dishwasher and a second bedroom for her office for the amount of rent she could afford to pay. When she returned smiling, she had found a two-bedroom duplex with nice size rooms, on a cul de sac, fenced back yard, and a kitchen that included a dishwasher and nice refrigerator. It turned out to be a perfect place for her. Her sister confided that the other places they checked were dumps and this was the last stop on their list. Our eldest is not a fan of shopping for anything. Her sister said she was afraid whatever the last place looked like, her sister would take it because she was tired of looking. Thank goodness the search worked out well.

Under the same life lesson, I’m reminded of when my parents and I moved back to Texas when I was a few months shy of eight-years-old. I was obsessed with Roy Rogers and cowboys—actually, I still am. I was disappointed when we settled in a cotton farming community. When we took a trip through ranching country to visit my grandmother, I was certain we’d finally see cowboys riding the range. My dad told me that was only in movies and never in real life. About halfway to Grandmother’s we passed a group of cowboys on horses rounding up cattle. I was beyond excited. Poor Dad was stuck having an exuberant kid chattering in the back seat for the rest of the trip.  

A difficult lesson for me (and I'm still struggling with this one) was learning not to compare myself to other writers. Of course we write because we want to, but in addition most of us are consumed with making good royalties. When I hear that so and so is making a million or more a year, I sigh. Of course I would love to make that amount! Who wouldn't? But, that writer’s path is not the same as mine (obviously). I am supposed to be in competition with myself but not with other writers. This is something about which I must remind myself frequently.

As years have passed, I’ve learned that material things are not as important as I’d once thought. When we downsized six years ago, we had to part with many possessions I hated to lose. Still, I have more than I need. Having a fancy car or a large house is nice, true, but family and friends are the things in life that are really important.

Priorities have changed as I’ve grown older. Recently I realized that I don’t have to impress anyone. Of course I want my family to be proud of me but they take me as I am. You could say I’ve mellowed. If people see me without makeup and in sweats, that's all right. I'm the same person no matter what I'm wearing.  

Life Lessons 101
I'm always amazed at those who say if they had it all to do over they wouldn’t change a thing. What? Didn’t they learn anything? I’ve made a lot of mistakes and have learned too many life lessons to list. I hope I’ve learned from each mistake, even though I can’t change anything about the past. Learning from our mistakes helps us now and in the future.

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My last words are to remind you of my two new releases. MELODY, Angel Creek Christmas Brides book 7 at the universal Amazon link  Each of the books in this series is stand-alone but why wouldn't you want to read each one? I'm honored to be included with this great line-up of authors. There were five brides last year and six this year. Mine is a bit differnt than I usually write. Fans have told me they love this book! MELODY is also in KU.

The box set CHRISTMAS WISHES, Where Wishes Do Come True, is set in Hopeful, Colorado. Available at your e-book vendor for only 99 cents, the tiny price is for all new stories by 15 authors! My story in this group is WINTER WISH and it's the first one in the set. The Amazon link is

Tuesday, November 19, 2019

Two roads diverged in the wood...

As I pondered the topic for this month’s blog post, life lessons, thankfulness, gratitude, appreciation and count your blessings, I wasn’t sure what to write about. I think all of those words are intermingled and the experiences in my life have reminded me to be thankful and grateful. 
Most of the lessons I’ve learned have been the hard way. I’m stubborn and never take the easy route. I was thinking of the famous quote by Robert Frost: Two roads diverged in the wood and I- I took the one less traveled by and that has made all the difference
I have often been at that fork and there have been times I start down on the path only to turn back and take the other. Why you might ask? I’m not sure. What it has done for me is to remind me to be grateful for the blessings in my life. No matter what mistakes I’ve made in my journey thus far they have all meant something to me. 
I’m blessed with an amazing and eclectic family. I’ve written about my loveable and kooky daughters before but I have a kind hearted husband, a thoughtful stepson and his wife, bright and talented grandkids, steadfast brothers and sisters-in-law who are more like sisters, assorted nieces and nephews and amazing parents. The dear friends I have are genuine and true and love me in spite of my flaws. They lift me up when I’m down, we celebrate triumphs together and laugh like no one can hear us. Isn’t that the sign of a true friend one that you can pick up the phone or sit down at a table with you and talk as if no time as passed at all? 
I am honored to be a part of the Romance Gems author group and that I’ve written almost twelve books with several more drafted. Who knew all the words were just waiting to spring from the tips of my fingers and live on a page. I’m blessed to be able to write and touch others through my stories. 
Every day I’m humbled by the people who are a part of my life. My life is richer for the amazing people I’ve met on my journey down either road in the wood. In the coming years I will continue to count my blessings every day and know that it’s okay to veer from the easy path and find my way along the bumps and challenges of life. It makes me the person I am today and shapes my tomorrows. 
Until next time,
I wish you happiness and love.
Here is an excerpt from: Borrowed The MacLellan Sisters Trilogy
Kenzie lay wide awake. The semi-darkness enveloped her like a comfortable old blanket. Her foot was propped up and draped with a lightweight covering. With her good hand, she tugged the hem of the nightgown down over her thighs. A soft snoring sound drifted through the open door; Robbie was sawing wood on the couch. Though she’d never admit it out loud, she was comforted knowing he was a few steps away.
She punched her pillows and lifted her wrist to reposition the cast. She wasn’t in physical pain, but her heart was heavy. 
What’s wrong with me? I’ve got a wonderful family and I’m lying here feeling sorry for myself. 
“Kenzie?” Grace hovered in the doorway, the hallway lamp casting a soft glow around her. “Everything okay?”
“I’m sorry—did I wake you?” Kenzie pushed herself to a half sitting position.
“No. I was thirsty and heard you moving around, so I thought I’d check in.” 
“I’m just a little keyed up. Go back to bed and get some rest.”
Grace padded into the room and perched on the edge of the bed. Folding her robe around her legs, she said gently, “Do you want to talk?”
In a hushed voice, to avoid waking up Robbie, Kenzie said, “I wouldn’t have any idea where to begin.” 
“What are you feeling right at this very minute?” 
“Grateful, relief, happy, sad and maybe a little angry.” 
“Why are you sad?” Kenzie could hear the concern in Grace’s voice. 
In a rush she said, “Everyone’s had to rearrange their lives because I need help. There’s not much I can do for myself, not even wash my hair.” 
“Sis, we’re family. Besides, it’s temporary.” 
Through a soft sigh Kenzie asked, “So why is Robbie snoring on my couch?” 
“It’s simple. He cares about you.” 

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Monday, November 18, 2019

From This Day Forward by @karilemor #RomanceGems

Whenever asked how long my husband and I have been together, we always answer, “We’ve been married for 32 years. At least 14 of them happily.”

We always get a laugh. But the truth of the matter is, we haven’t had 32 years of marital bliss. And his 14 years and my 14 weren’t necessarily the same 14 years. Would I give him up and do it over again with someone else? Probably not.

Even though I write romance, I know that even a couple who are deeply in love are not going to see eye to eye all the time from this day forward. You are two separate people with two separate lives and different opinions and beliefs.

What have I learned from 32 years of marriage? Marriage is hard. And it takes two people who are BOTH invested in being together for their lifetime. It can’t be one person doing all the giving and the giving in. It has to be a team effort. One both of you need to be determined to see through.

Unfortunately, in this day and age, everything is disposable. Marriage has fallen into that category for some. When my husband and I got married, we wanted it to be forever. We even put the inscription ‘Forever and Always’ on the inside of our wedding rings.

What’s my advice for a long and happy marriage? Make sure to spend lots of time apart.  Remember, absence makes the heart grow fonder!  LOL

But seriously, you don’t need to be attached at the hip to show you love someone. Find time for yourself and to be with your friends and do what you love, while your partner does the same. If you happen to have all the same friends and all the same interests, that’s even better. My husband and I don’t, but we allow each other time to do what we love. And then when we spend time doing something we both love, it makes that time so much more special.

In my book, Elusive Dreams, Erik and Tessa have a marriage of convenience and they have to figure out how to make their marriage work, without the perk of being in love. Check it out and see how they make this fake marriage into something real and lasting.

Comment below to share your life lesson with others.  And as always, don't forget to enter our rafflecopter draw to win an Amazon gift card. 

Saturday, November 16, 2019

Be Courageous by @ConstanceBretes #RomanceGems

In keeping with the theme this month here on Romance Gems Blogspot, Life Lessons, sharing lessons and wisdom, my wisdom is to be courageous. I specifically use my release, Blue As Sapphires, for this.

Did you know that:
Every 9 seconds in the US a woman is assaulted or beaten.” 

Blue As Sapphires is a story of one woman’s courageous survival and how she overcame domestic violence. Yes, it’s fictional, it’s a romance, and it has a happy ever after. But the message is the same. Encouragement for women in the midst of domestic abuse to get out and get away from it, start over, and live a purposeful life.

To show my commitment and encouragement to these women, all proceeds from the sale of this book goes to the National Domestic Violence Hotline (­

Marissa's home was her haven, until Riley invaded her space. 

Escaping from her abusive ex-husband, Marissa Simpson returns to her hometown to start over. She spends her days working at the local jewelry store, and the rest of her time is dedicated to mining along Red Rock River, searching for precious gems. Marissa has no intention of getting involved with another man, or with the community she left behind all those years ago. That is until Riley McCade shows up.

Riley is the Sheriff of Quartz County. He loves his community and goes out of his way to protect and serve. When he meets up with Marissa, he's bound and determined to get to know her even though she insists she's not interested.

The more Riley learns about Marissa's past, the more he concludes that she may be in danger. When her ex-husband shows up, can Riley protect her? And can he earn her love in the process?

November is the month for Gratitude, Appreciation, and counting your Blessings if you are religious and/or philosophical. Grateful, Thankful, Blessed—that's what we Romance Gems Authors feel. Join us this month in celebrating the Life Lessons we all learn. Enter our November Rafflecopter now for a chance to win 1 of 5 Amazon Gift Cards.

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Friday, November 15, 2019

Life's Takeaway Truths by @Bonnie Edwards #RomanceGems

None of us is an island. This is something I've learned throughout my journey as an author. In the beginning I needed to connect with more experienced writers to learn what they knew. I attended workshops every month, studied, went to conferences to absorb more. I met with editors and agents and felt my way through the bewildering maze of the publishing business. 

Everything was new and exciting and I didn't know what I didn't know so I asked and listened to the answers. Eventually, I learned enough about the craft to sell my work to different editors at different publishing houses. You'd think I didn't need to learn anything more, right? Wrong. By the time I knew how to craft a romance into something marketable, the market tightened and the publishing world tilted.

I could have quit then, but I'm a storyteller and stories just kept bubbling around inside looking to get out. But I had to learn even more because self-publishing came to my rescue. In this journey, I quickly learned that I could not do everything myself. I learned about my strengths and my very real weaknesses.

I write good stories. I have warm characters and decent plots. But can I market? Not well. This is where boxed sets have been a wonderful learning tool.

I hang out with excited, ambitious women who know how to write, market, and promote their work. They can create ad campaigns and memes and videos.

And I'm reminded again of those early days of writing when I didn't know what I didn't I'm asking and learning all over again. It's wonderful!

My book Like An Angel is included in this boxed set of eclectic romances. In Love Defines Us: Winning at Love you'll find a romance to suit just about any taste, all for only 99c. If you have a Kindle Unlimited subscription you can read it that way. 

So, Life Lesson? Keep learning, keep asking and know that you're not an island because we need connection, help, and knowledge. 

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