Friday, January 31, 2020

...a good tail wind blowing... by Liz Flaherty #RomanceGems

"You never will get where you're going
If you never get up on your feet
Come on, there's a good tail wind blowing"
 from "Put One Foot in Front of the Other," by Jules Bass and Maury Laws.

What's next? It was January's topic here on Romance Gems, and a very fitting one it was, too. I think I speak for all 20-some of us--and gesture for us as well--by throwing my hands up and saying, "What's next?" I'd include a few swear words in there, too. Maybe some tears. I might growl instead of speak. I might open a bottle of wine. I might finish it off.

The year has had rough beginnings for many of us. Loss, illness, surgery. Some of us feel we've been betrayed by a professional association and its membership. I don't know it for a fact and it's stuff we mostly keep to ourselves, but probably some of our private lives aren't what we wish they were. Heartache is company we keep whether we want to or not. Some of us can't bear the political climate.

But we're writers. We deal with emotion every single day. If not our own, then that of the people on our pages. We are pleased when we (or our people) make readers laugh or cry because we've done it to ourselves first. And we've done it because we've mined the awful stuff for what we can use. It's how we get through the day. How we put one foot in front of the other. (Maybe not all of us. I remember feeling terrible because grief fed my muse, but it was the truth. I think it silences it for others.)

I'm still in an anesthesia-fed fog, which I've been bemoaning for the nine days since I had disc surgery that left my fingers miraculously un-numb. I'm not sure how long I can blame the anesthesia, so I'm trying to work my way out of it, and that's what's next for me. Being healthy and thinking about spring and flowers and moving forward on my work-in-progress.

Come to think of it, that's a "what's next" I wish for everyone--at least all Romance Gems and other writer friends. I end my weekly newspaper column the same way every time, with "Have a good week. Be nice to somebody."

Make it happen. We're writers, after all.
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22 comments:

  1. A beautiful post Liz...thanks for saying what I am unable to express.

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    1. Thank you, Bonnie. Here's to better days ahead for both of us.

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  2. Liz, here's to a speedy recovery and hoping this New Year is a great one for you. Love your new cover and here's to super sales.

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  3. You hit the nail on the head! Thanks!

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  4. I hope you heal quickly and have a wonderful year of writing!

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    1. Thanks, Kari. The same back at you. (Well, I hope you're not having to heal, but you get my drift. Lol.)

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  5. I think emotions are why I switched back to writing romantic suspense. I needed to legally kill someone LOL Okay, I'll probably still write romantic comedy as well.
    My mother had disc surgery many, many years ago and I always thought the surgery afterward was harder on her than the slipped disc. But again, she had it done about 40 years ago. I hope there have been advancements and you heal quickly!
    Great post!

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    1. It's really been pretty easy. Other than the fogginess and the fact that I'm taking painkillers (which scares me some), I have little to complain about. It was harder on my husband 20 years ago, too, but my kids who had it powered right through. I don't think I'm a good enough writer not to have emotions to work with; there are definitely those who can, but I'm not one of them!

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  6. Truth! It's been a crazy month for SO MANY! I'm hoping for smoother sailing ahead for ALL. Wishing you a speedy recovery and many more happy days of writing to come. Bring on those spring flowers!🌷

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  7. Liz, yourinsights to tap into the energy of others is only one of your skills that make you such a good writer. Your post, as alwys resonates so well. Happy healing.

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  8. I love this honest post, Liz. It's probably why I appreciate the romance genre so much. Despite all the challenges on the page, you're guaranteed a happy ending. Such a vital comfort when it feels like the rest of the world is in chaos!

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  9. Oh, yes, the HEA is our finest thing, isn’t it?

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  10. Beautifully said. There are days when I wish I could put up a barrier against emotions, but, as you say, mining those bile-black emotions fuels our writing. So glad to hear you're doing well, Liz.

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    1. Thanks, Joan. A barrier might give our hearts a little peace sometimes. Sigh.

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  11. I'm glad your surgery went well and you're on the mend. It takes longer than we realize for that anesthesia to leave our bodies sometimes. Your post really struck a chord for me!

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    1. Thanks, Hannah. It seems as if it takes forever, doesn't it?

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  12. Great post, Liz. Hope you’re back on top soon!

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