Friday, May 10, 2019

Defining Heroism by @SatinRussell #RomanceGems


Many women lined up, one woman in a superhero costume.
Heroes and She-roes:
Ordinary people doing extraordinary things.
Happy May, romance readers!

In my neck of New England, May is a month of warming temperatures and brilliant flowers, as well as celebrating both Mother’s Day and Memorial Day. Hence, this month’s theme of “Heroes and She-roes” on the Romance Gems blog.

On the surface, heroes and she-roes can seem like a fairly straightforward topic. The obvious idea being that veterans, first-responders, and mothers alike could all be firmly placed under that heading.

While I don’t disagree, the more I thought about this topic, the more examples I came up with. Teachers who make a difference every day in the lives of children, for instance. Or that person who helps someone quietly, without the promise of accolades or fanfare. A person who answers a phone call and talks a friend off a ledge - literally or figuratively.

It got me thinking about HOW we establish the meaning of heroism. What degree does context matter? Would the definition change depending on which society or culture is defining it? How does the perception of heroism change over the course of time?

Of course, as a writer, one of the first things I did when contemplating this topic was to do some research. According to Google, a hero is “a person who is admired or idealized for courage, outstanding achievements, or noble qualities. Example: a war hero."

Part of me questions why we’re always equating heroism with war. I’d like to think we can equally refer to “peace heroes.” People who choose conflict resolution over violence, but that’s probably another topic for another day.

Additionally, a “shero” is a woman admired or idealized for her courage, outstanding achievements, or noble qualities; a heroine. (Fun fact: Apparently the term “shero” has been used since 1836 in relation to the suffragette movement. However, the word experienced a resurgence when Maya Angelou used it in her famous quote, “How important it is for us to recognize and celebrate our heroes and she-roes.")

Writing Heroism

Cover of Secret Hunger
If we choose to use a broader definition of the word hero, then I’m proud to say that my first book, Secret Hunger, features two heroic characters.

Mason Clark is the stereotypical definition of a hero; a Boston police detective who regularly puts his life on the line in order to save others. Even after experiencing a tragic incident on the job, he’s eager to recuperate and get back to work catching the ‘bad guys.’

Perhaps less obvious is Olivia Harper’s heroism – or “shero-ism.” When her parents die in a car crash, she chooses to leave culinary school and return home to take care of her two younger sisters. She shows up and does what’s right, despite the perceived cost to her own dreams or goals.

We may not all have the opportunity to be a first-responder, veteran, or mother, but most of us will have an opportunity to do what’s right at some point in our lives. We can all choose to show up when needed and be heroic - which is something worth celebrating long past the month of May!

What about you? How do you define heroism? Is there a hero or she-ro in your life? How have they inspired you?
May Contest:

Don't forget this month's CONTEST is well underway!

The Grand Prize: One (1) $20.00 Amazon Gift Card.

2nd thru 5th Prizes: Ebook Bundles by our bestselling authors. The books being given away are shown on the Monthly Giveaway page.

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Click this Rafflecopter link.

Start clicking buttons on the Rafflecopter. Each task counts as one entry.

Complete all the tasks for the most chances to win!

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Thursday, May 9, 2019

TALKING TO STRANGERS by Hannah Rowan #RomanceGems


My husband went to the men’s room while we were waiting for the server to bring our check.  By the time he returned I was deep in a discussion with a group of women at the next table about the incompetence of the waiter, the dirtiness of the restaurant, where we lived, where we were thinking of living in the future, what our children did for a living, and other little things like that.

“I was only gone for five minutes,” my husband said.

Yes, but the ladies and I bonded over the fact that the waiter took off with our credit cards many minutes before and was now possibly shopping at a nearby mall and we were never coming back to this restaurant again.

“How do you know so much about these people?” my husband will ask.

I don’t know.  It just happens!  People tell me things.

Okay, maybe I ask a lot of questions.

But I know that one of the clerks at the grocery store works there part time while holding down a full-time job and working on a book about aliens.

And another works there while going to school to be a nurse.

My husband grows somewhat alarmed because he knows if I go to the ladies’ room in a restaurant, I’m likely to be gone a while because I’m listening to someone’s latest story.

I know a lot about the people in the post office, the library, and my favorite card store.  But I also find out about the people sitting next to me on a bus, on a plane, or in the doctor’s waiting room.

What I don’t understand is how someone can not know these things. My husband will get off the phone with a friend or relative and I’ll ask what the person said.

“Oh, nothing,” he’ll say. 

But they’ve been talking for 10 minutes.

I’ll ask why his friend is getting a divorce, or why they’ve decided to move to another state, or why they’re inviting us to their house for dinner.  A party?  Do I need to bring a gift?  He never knows!

Perhaps it’s the writer in me, gathering all these little bits and pieces of other people’s lives and filing them away to possibly pull out and twist around an fit them into a story.

Or maybe I’m just a pathologically nosy person who never learned not to talk to strangers.

Wednesday, May 8, 2019

Welcome To Chance by @ElsaKurt #RomanceGems

Yippie...


I'm gearing up for the re-release of my beloved Welcome To Chance series and I am beyond excited!



Oops, Hang On...


In fact, I'm so excited that I just jumped right in. Let me backtrack a little. Last year, right around this time, I developed two stories. One was about a young, hard-edged girl name Feather Anne and an elderly couple, the Brightsiders, who took a shine to her. The other revolved around a May-December romance. Meanwhile, a third story - this one centering a shy, mousy woman with a massive crush on the town playboy - emerged from the brain jungle. Three separate books... so I thought.



Lightning Bolt Moment Ahead...


Then it hit me. These aren't stand-alones. These people - these stories - are connected. My excitement grew. There was this whole community waiting to tell their stories, I could see them clear as day. I couldn't write fast enough. Have you ever heard a psychic medium say, 'several spirits are trying to talk at once?' Well, that's what it felt (and still feels) like when I slip into this small, fictional New England town.

What's it like there? 


Well, Chance, Connecticut is small-town USA, a place where everyone knows your name... and your business. It's a close-knit community with scandals, romances, break-ups, and long-standing friendships. In Chance, just as in our own lives, no one is solely what we see on the surface. The hard-edged girl with a chip on her shoulder? The narcissistic playboy? The ice queen? The stranger who's come to town? The wallflower? They all have a story to tell, so I listen and tell them.

After all, every writer will tell you... never argue with the muse.



But I Digressed...

So, I wrote the first two books and self-published them. Then, on a whim, I sent them off to my publisher (of three anthology novellas, HERE, HERE, and HERE). I know, I know... why didn't I send them in the first place? The simple answer: Self-publishing allows for greater control and... I'm a control freak. It's something I've been told but didn't believe about myself until I started publishing.



Pros and Cons...

I also appreciate the value of having a publishing company. Long story short, they wanted the series. This meant I had to un-publish the books, effective immediately. Honestly? Doing so was painful. I'd put in a lot of time marketing and promoting the books & was seeing results. So, I had to weigh the pros and cons of self-pub vs. traditional. For me, it came down to expanding my platform and using the resources afforded by a having a publisher handle some of the heavy lifting. The con, of course, was giving up some much of the control. I've had to say goodbye to my beautiful covers and bite my nails in anticipation of what they'll choose. Here are my babies when they were born...


Then A Thing Happened...

Here's what I know so far. New cover for Mae's Cafe... not what I'd have chosen. I confess I had to take deep breaths, dry my eyes, and pull on my big girl pants. I've learned that this is the nature of the beast. To grow, one must loosen the death-grip on the reigns. No matter what, I'll love my book babies and send them out in the world with love and hope for their success. When I get the green light to share on the Official Welcome To Chance page, I'd love to hear your thoughts. We've also changed the name of book two (A Season to Remember) to Georgie's Secret. Since I picked the title, I'm happy with this change. No crybaby whining, lol.



I Need Ya...

I would love if you joined me on the Welcome To Chance page or on my page to get the latest updates on Chance. Book One, Mae's Cafe releases on June 4th (pre-order begins May 27th) and Georgie's Secret releases July 31st (pre-order begins July 24th). Meanwhile, here's an intro to the people of Chance...




May Celebration: Heroes and She-Roes



I love our May theme! My book, The Writer's Romance is in the Giveaways because Mitch Ford is more than just a handsome reality tv personality. His show, The Rebuilder, restores home for veterans on hard times. And Katharine Evan's may seem like she's cold as ice, but she's all heart for her Down's Syndrome foundation that she runs with her older brother Nate, who has Down's. I love how different these two characters seem at first, but then we learn they're not so different after all. Both their hearts beat strongest for those less fortunate. My Hero & She-ro!

Our Rafflecopter is live! Check out our Monthly Giveaway page for details and to view the prizes. Each day's post will have a reminder about the May Rafflecopter.
Be sure and enter you just may win the $20.00 Amazon Gift Card or some of the incredible romance novels by our amazing authors.




Enter often for a chance to win this!


Tuesday, May 7, 2019

It Took Me 30 Years before I Wrote About It by Jan Scarbrough #RomanceGems


As a romance writer, I write a form of fantasy, especially the Happily-Ever-After (HEA) ending. However, I often include a lot of truth in my books. More often than not, it’s my truth—things I’ve learned over my life. When my friend recently described her daughter’s divorce, I flashed back to my experiences.

My BluegrassReunion Series is set in Kentucky with heroines who are usually single moms. I was a single mom too for many years, so I felt comfortable writing about heroines in similar situations. The thing is, most of my heroines were single moms for reasons other than divorce. They were aunts or moms who had never married.

It wasn’t until thirty years after the fact that I felt comfortable enough with myself to create a divorced heroine.

In KentuckyRain, Kate deals with very hurtful experiences—exchanging her child with the child’s father once a week, dealing with the knowledge of the other woman, facing her own inadequacies, and handling life as a single parent.

What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.

It happened with me. It’s happened to thousands of women. It happens with Kate in the book, a true she-roe.

As hard as my divorce was, I’m better for going through it and surviving. It just took me a long time before I could write about its realities.

The revised and re-edited Kentucky Rain will be available later this month.

Heroes and She-roes Celebration Rafflecopter

In May, Romance Gems honors HEROES & SHE-ROES: Moms, Soldiers, and First Responders.

Rafflecopter starts May 4, Saturday and runs through May 29, Wednesday. All of our Authors are participating. You'll find the Rafflecopter form right here so come back for multiple chances to enter and possibly win one of these prizes:

Grand Prize: 1 (one) Amazon Gift Card in the amount of $20.00.

2nd thru 5th Prizes: Ebook Bundles by our bestselling authors. The books being given away are shown on the Monthly Giveaway Page.

For  a chance to win a $20.00 Amazon Gift Card and Bundles of Ebooks, click here to enter our RAFFLECOPTER:

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Sunday, May 5, 2019

Only Robinson Crusoe Had Everything Done by Friday ~ Nancy Fraser #RomanceGems


Procrastination is a writer’s worst enemy. With tight deadlines for complete manuscripts, edits and galleys no author can afford to stop and ‘fool around’ doing nothing. Unfortunately, procrastination hits the author as easily as it does everyone else. Sometimes worse...but then it’s called “Writer’s Block”.

I’ve often wondered how other writers waste time, so I asked a few of the other Romance Gems to admit to their favorite form of procrastination.  Here’s what they had to say....

"My favorite form of procrastination when I can't write is scrolling mindlessly through my social media feeds." - Elsa Kurt, author of Awkward Adventures in Dating

"I usually get sucked into the black hole that is social media when I'm procrastinating. Sometimes, I manage to convince myself that I'm being productive because it counts as marketing." - Satin Russell, author of Secret Hunger

“It's so hard to stay on track when writing and facing that blank page. I tell myself ‘I'll just pop over to Facebook for a minute.’ Of course, that minute always turns out to be many, many minutes.” – Cheryl Bolen, author of LastDuke Standing

“Procrastination is my middle name and my favourite method of exercising same is checking email, FB, Twitter, then my sales, then email, FB, Twitter, then my sales, email, FB...” - Bonnie Edwards author of The Brantons

“I pick up the remote and watch CNN documentaries. After an episode I’m back in the groove to write.” – Lucinda Race, author of TheLoudon Series

"I adore the love story of Emma Swan and Killian Jones, and whenever I can't write, I watch their scenes on YouTube and my heart just sings!" -- Kara O'Neal, author of Destiny's Secrets

“My favorite form of procrastination is watching Caribbean Life and dreaming of where I’ll go once I make enough money.”  - Kathleen Lawless, author of  Grace's Folly

“My favorite form of procrastination when I can't write is watching nostalgic television series on the ME or Cozy TV channels. Doesn't matter if they're comedies like Cheers or detective shows like Remington Steele. I can sack out on the couch for hours visiting with my old friends." - Nora LeDuc, author of Midnight Girl 

"My favorite form of procrastination when I can't write is reading a great romance novel, because then I can convince myself I'm still helping my writing."  Kari Lemor - author of RunningTarget

“When procrastination hits me, I usually watch Buzzfeed Unsolved or similar conspiracy theory videos on youtube.” – Laura Hunsaker, author of Dark Past

“When I procrastinate I do it big: with chocolate and you-tube videos of 80's and 90's Rock bands and balladeers! Nothing like a little head bopping and candy to wile away a few minutes...or hours....or, well - you get the idea!” - Peggy Jaeger, author of Dearly Beloved

And, as for myself ...

"My favorite form of procrastination when I can't write is watching Pentatonix and Superfruit music videos on YouTube. I’ve also become addicted to watching people reacting to Pentatonix videos. It’s a vicious cycle!" - Nancy Fraser, author of Time and Again

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Contest News!

In May the Romance Gems honors Heroes and She-roes: Mothers, Soldiers, and First Responders. For a chance to win a $20 Amazon Gift Card and Bundles of EBooks, enter our Rafflecopter draw!
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Book Sale News!

Decorated war hero Reece Michaels agrees to go undercover in order to bring down the Irish Mob. In return, the civilian life he’s coveted for the past six years will be returned to him.

Hired by mob boss Sean O’Malley to protect his youngest son, Reece soon discovers the young man needs more protection from his own family than its enemies.

What Reece doesn’t count on is his instant attraction to the police chief’s beautiful and willing daughter. Abby Mackenzie is the younger sister of a woman with whom Reece once had a torrid affair. He’s determined to not give in to Abby’s come-hither ways.
After all, one Mackenzie woman was more than enough.
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Based on the Grimm Brothers' fairy tale, The Devil's Sooty Brother, Do You Want Me is available for just 99¢ from Amazon.

Until my next turn on the blog, stay happy, stay healthy, stay well read!

Nancy

Friday, May 3, 2019

Celebrations! by Karen Whiddon #RomanceGems

My regular day to post every month is on the third.  Today, May 3rd, is also my birthday!  I'm celebrating by hanging with my beloved husband and later my daughter.  We'll eat out and shop and just make today different than a regular, routine day.



In our family, birthdays always are a big deal.  It's a special day.  I don't write or work much.

Lately, I've been trying to celebrate every day - to try and find something to be thankful for, even in the mundane and routine.  There is so much.

A funny or cute picture on Facebook or Instagram.  The amazing book I'd bought several months ago because it was on the NY Times Bestseller list and finally got around to reading (Where the Crawdads Sing.)  The awe inspiring cloud formation in a stormy sky.  The ladybug I rescued from the pool and how she crawled around on my hand before I released her into the grass.

Flowers and puppies, a good belly laugh.  That first, hot cup of coffee in the morning.  So much more.  I could go on, but I figure you've got the picture by now.

Celebrating and constantly attempting to seek joy also brings me inspiration.  When I read a really great book, the writing or plot inspires me.  Same for an interesting TV show or movie.  Sometimes, just sitting in a crowded restaurant and listening to the ebb and flow of conversation around me, makes an idea germinate.

Speaking again of birthdays, the older I get, the more I realize there is to be grateful for.  The things we take for granted when we're young (our health, mobility, fast metabolism, etc.) are not quite as much of a given as we age.  I have to say, my fifth decade so far has been great.  I'm more confident, athletic, and worry less about what others think.

It's also more difficult to get by on less sleep and harder to get my body in the kind of shape I want it to be.

Though my next Harlequin book won't be out until later this year, I do have several older books for sale on Amazon.  I'm giving away a copy of one, The Perfect Soldier, in our next giveway for me.  It's the second book in a series called The Cordasic Legacy.  Check out book one here, called Blacksheep PI - free to read on Kindle Unlimited. On Amazon

Here's the cover image


And our blog is having its own celebration!!!

Part of our May Celebration is a Rafflecopter that goes "live" on May 4 so be checking the Blog and the Monthly Giveaway page to see if the Rafflecopter is there and "alive."

The Grand Prize is one (1) $20.00 Amazon Gift Card.

2nd thru 5th Prizes: Ebook Bundles by our bestselling authors. The books being given away are shown on the Monthly Giveaway page. 

How To Enter?

You have multiple opportunities to enter.

When the you see the Rafflecopter or the link to it, simply click over and start clicking buttons on it and do the tasks. That's one entry. You can click all the buttons, and you can enter multiple times.

Our policies concerning Promotions and Giveaways, Eligibility, and Prize Award Procedures are shown in detail on our Policies Page. Please read. We strictly adhere to those policies

Wednesday, May 1, 2019

May Celebration: Moms, Soldiers, First Responders by @JoanReeves #RomanceGems

Happy by Terri C. #2220481, Pixabay.com
I'm happy because it's May, and the sun's shining, the flowers are blooming, and the trees finally stopped dumping pollen all over my piece of the planet.

I'm also happy because we had such a great response to our April Easter Egg Hunt.

We appreciate everyone who follows our blog. We'd like to break 100 this month on Followers, and you can help us achieve that.

See on the left sidebar where it says "We Love Our Blog Followers?"

Do us a favor and click Follow and fill out the little form that opens. Then your tiny picture will pop up so we can see your smiling face. Or your dog's smiling face since a lot of people use their pet's photo.

May Celebration

Making each month's book, author, and reader promotion better than the last is difficult, but I think we may have done it with May's Celebration of Moms, Soldiers, and First Responders.

There is no better month to celebrate Moms since Mother's Day is this month. By the same token, there's no better month to celebrate the Heroes and She-roes of our world than May, the month in which we celebrate Memorial Day in the U.S.

We salute and honor all of the Heroes and She-roes, from our precious Moms to:

the men and women of the Armed Forces, active duty and retired, who sacrifice and often pay a high price for defending our freedom

the police who have a daunting job and are in the line of fire on a daily basis

the firefighters who put themselves in harm's way to protect lives and property.

the Emergency Medical teams who race to save lives, and the Emergency Room Doctors and Nurses all across the world.

Heroes and She-roes Celebration

Maya Angelou, an unofficial Poet Laureate of America, may have been the first to refer to women as She-roes rather than as heroines. I like the word Shero because it sounds as if it should be the female counterpart of hero. Heroine always makes me think of leading ladies in novels and movies.

Part of our May Celebration is a Rafflecopter that goes "live" on May 4 so be checking the Blog and the Monthly Giveaway page to see if the Rafflecopter is there and "alive."

The Grand Prize is one (1) $20.00 Amazon Gift Card.

2nd thru 5th Prizes: Ebook Bundles by our bestselling authors. The books being given away are shown on the Monthly Giveaway page.

How To Enter?

You have multiple opportunities to enter.

When the you see the Rafflecopter or the link to it, simply click over and start clicking buttons on it and do the tasks. That's one entry. You can click all the buttons, and you can enter multiple times.

Our policies concerning Promotions and Giveaways, Eligibility, and Prize Award Procedures are shown in detail on our Policies Page. Please read. We strictly adhere to those policies.

Blog Updated

We've done some spring cleaning on the blog. You'll see some new books covers framed in the right sidebar plus some new images scattered around.

New Blog Page

We've added another page to Romance Gems Blog. Click on Listen to Romance or click the tab for it on the Menu Bar.

We have 12 audio books on display. You can click each book and be taken to the audio book webpage where you can hear a sample of the book.

There's nothing like hearing a wonderful romance performed by a talented voice actor.

We hope you like the books so much that you'll buy one of course. *LOL* But, if you don't, you'll have fun listening to a romance novel read aloud.

Pop-Up Giveaway

Do you listen to audio books? If so, what device do you use?

If you don't, what's stopping you? It's the fastest growing part of the publishing industry.

Maybe you don't know how easy it is to download an audio book and listen to it?

No problem. I'm blogging again tomorrow. I'm going to give step by step instructions on how to claim a free audio book from Audible. What's better than free? Nothing!

That means I'm going to give away an audio book today. All you have to do to be entered is to leave a comment with your email address.

I'll choose a winner by random draw and announce the name tomorrow when I blog. this weekend. Sorry, I didn't think this impromptu giveaway through. I'll announce both winners' names in the Comments section of this post and the May 2 post as well as contact them by email.

But Wait, There's More

I'll also give away an audio book tomorrow too! So go to Listen to Romance and look at my 3 audio books on display.

Click on the link to go to the audio webpage and listen to the samples. Sound like fun?

Come back tomorrow and have another chance to win!

Now, kick back and relax, enjoy that golden sunshine. Take a book with you.

I love my Kindle because it can be read in bright sunlight, and the battery stays charged for days.

Maybe we should give away a Kindle on a monthly promotion.

Do you think readers would like that? I asked a lot of questions so give me some answers in Comments.