My day to blog on Romance Gems is the 18th
of each month. The reason I chose that is because it’s the date of my birthday.
Precisely, June 18. Which is TODAY! I
knew I wouldn’t forget it.
As we get another year older, we often reflect on
our life and what we’ve done. Today, I’m taking a peek at my relationship with
romance. Or maybe I should say romance
novels.
As a young child, I loved reading Trixie Belden books.
Looking back, I realized that was the beginning of my fascination with
relationships and romance. I wanted Trixie and Jim to be together in all the
scenes. And when I read Nancy Drew, I loved when Ned showed up. Same with the
Hardy Boys. I always wanted Callie and Iola to be around, so I could see the
interaction between these couples.
Now my mom was a Harlequin fanatic. Every month, on
release day, she would go down the street to the department store and take one
of every new release Harlequin had. My mom was a voracious reader (thus passing that
gene on to me) and would have two piles next to her chair. To Be Read. And Done. I got to pick through the done
pile.
At this time, these romance books were all sweet or
closed-door sex. Which was good, since I was only twelve. They also only had the heroine’s point of
view. We’d only see what the hero was thinking on the last few pages, when he
started his soliloquy as to why he’d been so surly to the heroine all along. I
was thrilled when the heroes started getting their point of view added to romance
as well.
As the years went by, romances changed, and some grew
sexier, some had danger added, and some told stories of paranormal creatures
and beings. But through it all, the heart of a romance is about the couple in
love.
It's sad that people often put romance down as being smutty, dirty, silly,
or just plain not as worthy of people to read. And while there may be some romance
books that could fit in those categories, most romances are all about love.
As author Damon Suede says, “Romance is the genre of
hope.” And isn’t that a great reason to read it? This world has so many
horrible things that go on every day. So many people who do nothing but hate,
or people who are brutalized and hurt. With all that surrounding us, why wouldn’t
we want to pick up a book that lets us escape from the real world for a bit? A book that shows two characters, conflicted for some reason
so they can’t be together, who push past all the hurt and anger, and find a way
to love each other. To show us that if we want it bad enough, and work for it,
we can have something good in our lives. Hope.
All romances have one thing in common. A Happily Ever
After. That’s my favorite part. Even
though all may seem lost, and you think your couple couldn’t possibly find a
way to be together, they do! And the best writers have you absolutely certain
this couple will be together, forever.
Maybe the world would be a much better, more accepting
place, if more people read romance!
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In celebration of my birthday, I’m giving YOU a
present! That’s right. My birthday, but you get the gift. I am giving away five
(5) digital copies of my book, RUNNING TARGET, and five (5) digital copies of
Fatal Evidence. The contest is open to everyone.
What do you need to do? Simple.
Send an e-mail to: karilemorauthor@gmail.com stating you’d like one of my books. If you already have one of these and would
prefer the other, make sure you let me know.
Please use the email address you’d
like me to respond to if you win.
That’s it! Just send me an e-mail.
I will pick (10) random winners one week from today,
Tuesday, June 25. Winners will be notified by e-mail and receive a code for downloading the book.
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Don't forget our
MONTHLY GIVEAWAY
June Giveaway
Starts at 12:01am CDT, June 3, Monday. Ends at 12:01am CDT, June 27, Thursday.
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